painful cervical exam

valentin • trans dad///baby girl born 8/15/2020

i just got out of my second exam this week. i recently moved and found two doctors I wanted to try out.

the first appt i went to was awesome, and the cervical exam didnt hurt whatsoever. i was 1cm dilated and the doctor had no concerns.

this last one i just had was literally unbearably painful, like it literally felt like i was being mangled and it just kept getting worse. i have never felt pain like that in my life. then the doctor said i was tight and she was concerned about the baby coming out. but this was. not a problem 3 days ago at my last exam. wtf??? can anyone explain what might have happened, or if i should be concerned? im definitely leaning towards the other doctor because i feel like that shouldnt have hurt so bad