Ok so I am a stay at home mom of 2 small children one is 2 the other is 9mo.

I really struggle with wanting to do things sexually woth my husband. By the time we get in bed I'm just done. I just want my personal space or to just cuddle and crash.

My husband is an incredible husband and father. He helps me with the kids so I'm not doing it alone but he doesnt understand me being done and just not being in the mood.

Dont start jumping on my husband saying he should just let me be I just want either a way to better explain the pressures and exhaustion of motherhood that is killing the mood or ways for me to help myself be in the mood more.

Feel free to ask more questions bc this is a hard subject to explain