Difficulty winding

Baby is 10 weeks old and is very very difficult to wind. We can spend 46 minutes trying to get wind up sometimes. Baby is not in pain or discomfort but we have learnt if we dont wind he is sick, bringing up most of his feed.

We pat and rub his back whilst he is sat on our knee leaning forward or over our shoulder stretched out straight.

I dislike putting him down (especially in the night one incase he is sick and two in case he wakes in pain.

Any tips or advice?