So there’s this guy I really like and we met through my best friend. We’ve known each other for a few years but have only met three times. Everything about him is perfect probably because he’s like the male version of me lol. Too much.. okay🙈 anyways everyone always shipped him and my bestie together including me at one point until I recently realized that I like him too. We recently reconnected at his birthday and I caught him staring at me a lot and dropping little hints😏 Then Is was like ok I reallly like him now. I was afraid to tell my best friend bc fries before guys but I told her anyways. She didn’t have too much of a reaction but I felt a little better. Fast forward a couple of days we were all on the phone ( I was sleeping over her house) and he made a really off color comment. Mind you days prior we were talking on the phone for like 7 hours straight at a time, so this was shocking. He was just joking but the fact that he was the one that said it really caught me off guard bc 1 I like him and 2 he is such a zen person. Anyways I slowly realized how pissed I was ( I’m a Capricorn). My friend told me to just tell him how I felt and ended up telling him that I liked him😬 To my surprise he liked me back and didn’t say anything for the same reasons I didn’t. Soo then bc I’ve never been in a relationship before I assumed this was my ticket without thinking too clearly as I do. Anyways the next day I felt like a jackass bc I was moving hella fast and felt like I scared him off. My dumbass said, “ my dad would love you”. SHIT🤡 So I texted him telling him that I thought I scared him off to which he replied with I never really wanted to date.... but others things he’s said suggests otherwise. I wish I could talk to my bestie but the guy said we shouldn’t tell her.. and I’m like 1 she already knows I like you and 2 we’re not even a thing so why keep it a secret? Sorry for the rant but should I try to get over him? Bc as much as I want this to go somewhere he doesn’t seem to feel the same way🥺☹️Im always the one to initiate our convos +I feel like I’m obsessing over him how do I rid him of my mind😭