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Ok So My Sons Dad Had Got Shot Last Week 4 Times I Really Don't Hear From Him Unless He Needs Me Other Than That He Might Come N Get My Son Every Blue Moon  So His Car Is In The Shop The Other Day His Gf Called Me Wanting Me To Take Her To Pick Him Up From The Er He Had A Allergic Reaction  My Bf Said I Shouldn't Do Anything For Them Because He Just Wants To Use Me for rides But My Sons Dad Has No Family Here And I'm The Closest Thing To Family Plus He Just Got Shot So Hes Mad Because I Picked Them Up And He Says I Care About Him More And What He Says Doesnt Matter Blah Blah Blah Next Day Their Calling Asking For A Ride I Told My Bf I Was Done Giving Them Rides But They Don't Have Anybody else What Would U Do I'm In A Rock In A Hard Place I Only Been Dating My Bf 2years I Been Knowing My Sons Dad 7years

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Picking him up from the ER Is understandable. But he already has a woman. I wouldn’t do him any other favors unless it involves your child. I can see why your bf would be uncomfortable. And what annoys me more about this is the fact that your baby father has a gf. she should be saving him, not you.

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If he is only a daddy once in a blue moon he doesn’t deserve your help honestly. They better call a Uber df.

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I wouldn’t keep giving them rides because they are using you !! You might’ve known him longer but you’re with your bf now .. he has a gf she’s his responsibility not yours !!

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If your child's father isn't really in the picture other than when he wants to be, I say stop doing things for him. He has a gf, so let him rely on her. If he can't rely on her, he's an adult so let him get a taxi or figure something else out.

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Picking him up from the hospital and just driving them around are too different things in my opinion. Id say picking him up was a favor as his bm, but if he needs to handle his business he needs to figure that out on his own. His girl should be able to take care of him. He can call a Lyft or Uber. But this just my opinion.

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I agree with everyone else. Picking him up from the hospital is one thing but him and his girl friend need to figure out how he is going to get around. It isn't your responsibility. 
I would probably feel differently if he was really involved father but it sounds like he isn't.

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Can't his girlfriend do it? 🤷🏻‍♀️

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They need to get an uber/bus/train/bicycle/tricycle/whatever

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