If your child didn't like the person you were dating, would u leave them or stay? (After a few months of dating)

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Depends on why they don’t like him. Are there valid reasons that you’re being blind to? Or is it just something new that the child could adapt and eventually like them....

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It depends on a few things. I'd consider:
1. The age of the child (because I think teens would tend to dislike ANYONE new no matter how perfect they are)
2. The reason they dislike them. Like if they met them and was like "Ew, he's blonde, I don't like him and never will" that's way different than if they said "He's kind of mean to me" or "He makes me uncomfortable" after months of them having interactions
3. How much effort my partner has been putting in to bond with my kid when I bring him around. If it doesn't really seem to bother him that they dislike him that's a huge no-no for me

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My mom started dating my step dad when I was 3 and married him when I was 4. I’ve never liked him. I could sense from very early on that he just wasn’t a good person. Don’t get me wrong hes not horrible but he was very emotionally and mentally abusive to all of us growing up and I will always resent my mom for staying with him and putting us through that.  Because of him I never had the chance to grow up with an actual father (or father figure) because I sure don’t consider him one. It’s caused me a lot of issues. Unless your partner can fully commit to being a father figure and love your child like it was his own, I would do some serious thinking. Your children only have one childhood...

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Im not sure. When my parents got divorced I was 5 and my dad started dating a lady and they were together for a lonh time and I know that i didnt want him to stay with her because I thought she was mean but he never left her been married for 16 years now and now that im older I realize that she wasn't mean she just wanted the best for my sister's and I. She has actually been more of a mom to me then my real mom so I'm really glad he didn't leave her.

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No matter what if my child or children doesn’t like him I would leave they are more important than any partner I wouldn’t care about a reason they’re feeling are valid too

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Depends on why they dont like them how old the child is. Sometimes children have a hard Time with there mothers or fathers dating someone eles. Especially if there little and they can see it as there taken my attention away from me and not like them cuz of that..

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It depends on why they don't like them. If it's just a matter of the kids feeling this partner is going to replace their parent or that they fear they won't get enough attention then no, I wouldn't end it.
If the partner is forever screaming and fighting, etc and that's why the child doesn't like them then yes.

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I would most likely leave but it really depends. There are so many factors to take into account with something like this. So I’m going with “depends”.

If your child didn't like the person you were dating, would u leave them or stay? (After a few months of dating)

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