Boyfriend says I’ve been a “positive influence” on his depression. Is that a red flag?

Question

He says “I have you, and everything will be okay.” On top of that, he’s been motivated to make better dietary choices and workout more, and I am so happy! But I’ve heard somewhere that when someone puts that much emotional weight on you, it can be a red flag. Is it?

Answer

Doesn’t sound like he’s RELYING on you to create his happiness. You have motivated him to make better choices which is bringing him happiness along with having you.

Answer

No this isn’t a red flag

Answer

It just sounds like you’re helping him get better and feel happier but it’s not like you’re completely healing him and he’s relying on you for that, it just sounds like you add to what makes him happy

Answer

Yes while it’s good you motivate him, you cannot be his sole source of happiness because that makes it harder for you in the long run and your relationship will become emotionally exhausting.

Boyfriend says I’ve been a “positive influence” on his depression. Is that a red flag?

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