UPDATE: yeah completely backfired. He said everything I was saying was a betrayal to his best friend and he’s not giving him special treatment he’s just treating him the way he’s always treated him and that I’m just bashing him and his dog and that his dog isn’t going to have any problems with the baby cuz it’s going to be his baby and the only reason he’s acting like this is because won’t don’t let him sleep in the bed anymore and that is the only solution.(I’m not comfortable with this at all because I’ll be breastfeeding and semi cosleeping) then he just started making passive aggressive comments about how I’m treating my dog different because she lays next to me on the couch and I’m treating our puppy different because he sleeps in a kennel cuz he’s kennel training so we better let him out so all the dogs are equal and now we’re fighting and I’m sleeping on the couch 😕

Just venting but we have 3 dogs. 1 I brought into the relationship, 1 he brought into the relationship, and 1 we got together. I feel like a hormonal bitch but I’m getting really sick of him letting his dog do whatever. He gives him his leftover meals(just him not the other 2) and the dog is food aggressive to the point on peeing around his bowl and starts whining and having a panic attack if bf pets the other dogs and only wants to go outside to potty alone with bf if he doesn’t get that he will hop the fence or potty in the house. None of the other dogs are mean to him or even try to get his food or toys or anything they legit do not care. I feel bad pup is having anxiety but I think bf is enabling the behavior continuing to give him special treatment compared to the other dogs and not correcting him for making his own rules like when it’s bathroom time. I’m about to just give up on even trying to resolve the issue but I feel like it’s just gonna get worse when baby is here next month getting bf’s attention but every time I suggest we do something like meds or the vet or an invisible fence or not give positive attention in response to him obviously being spoiled he gets defensive and starts talking about how the “other dogs aren’t all perfect either” I’m just fivkdksjgjjddb anyone else deal with this and have any advice? I love the dog to pieces I just don’t want him to get hurt getting out of the yard and I don’t want him to have constant anxiety the rest of his life