Some men are just gross not all but some so reason I’m saying this is because I’m in a 3 year relationship with the love of my life I met him the beginning of sophomore year in high school we just graduated well about a month ago I got a friend request on Facebook from a kid I went to middle school with he went to a different high school then me on the other side of town well after I realized who it was is added him back we were good friends in middle school well I get a message from him and I said “hey a” (I’m just gonna call him A) and we just started catching up but he was kinda dry so I wasn’t really responding back it was kinda awkward so I asked why he texted me and he said because he’s had a FREAKEN CRUSH on me since middle school like uhhh for that long he’s liked me and didn’t say anything until I’m in 3year very happy relationship red flags one so I don’t know what to say so I’m like “why didn’t you say anything in middle school” I had no boyfriend then I was a loner and loners gets and then this is we’re he try’s to guilt trip me in to making me feel bad that I’m in a happy relationship  I don’t feel bad for shit I won’t apologize for being happy sorry not sorry more red flags he’s saying how he wants to kill himself over me and how he’s worthless and a Piece of shit trying to make me feel bad and me being me I know how that feels to feel worthless so I’m trying to make him stop saying that I’m trying to help him even though I know what he’s doing being Manipulative so fast Forward I don’t talk to him because he makes me a bit uncomfortable he’s not the same old A I knew well I posted a picture of me and my steer I had just talking about how much I miss him and how I miss showing and he texts me saying how he should have said something in middle school like uh yeah well last night he said hey and I said hey back and me being the kind person I am  ask how he is and he’s DRY as usual and he goes off how everyone just leaves him and bull shit like that I’m really not trying to be mean but I know Manipulative when I see it my brother is a sociopath and I think A is too by the way he’s acting but I’m no DR but he started asking me weird question like if I’ve had sex and if I’ve used a condom or not and if I’ve been cummed in and I really didn’t like that it made me feel so uncomfortable and gross and then he does “but you are in relationship” um fuck yeah I am what the FUCK who tf do you think you are asking me personal questions like that that’s only me and my boyfriend Business that’s it I was driving to work today thinking about it and I got more mad I want to tell him off then block him I should have last night I was just so dumbfounded and he went off saying “just go be in love don’t mind me saying I wanted to fuck you and I masturbated thinking of you “ WHY ARE SOME MEN LIKE THAT i feel so Violated and the reason I haven’t blocked him yet because I’m trying to think of a away time tell him off because that’s bullshit if what he is saying it ok I’m sorry this post is so long I just had to get that off my chest  I need yalls help