I became friends with a guy over a year ago and we got really close because of our bond and connection. Everything just flowed for us and was natural and I found myself being vulnerable with him in a way that I hadn't with anyone before. We had never experienced something like before and fell in love with each other. He even told me I was his person and went the extra mile to make me feel special and loved although we were not together. I then asked him where we were headed because we pretty much acted like we were in a relationship and he said he wasnt ready for one. I decided to leave because it was too painful to be "just friends" with him knowing how I felt. When I told him I was leaving, he got upset and he threw our whole friendship back in my face with all the things he did for me, the way he loved me, the vulnerability etc. I've since blocked him and we haven't spoken in a few days.

For the most part, I'm okay with us not being friends anymore but what hurts the most is him throwing everything back in my face especially the vulnerability. I've been crying on and off since for the last few days. How do I get over this? Is it normal for people to throw your vulnerability back into your face when you cut them off?