How do you stop loving someone? We broke up months ago. We don’t talk, or keep in contact and that’s suppose to help apparently but I don’t feel it’s helping me, heck it’s been a long time I should be over this! I understand and know that we both where not compatible, I understand why the relationship failed and I’m glad it did because it wasn’t right. I don’t want to get back with him either, but I’m so tired of thinking about him, I’m so tired of going through life with all the “what if’s”.

And before anyone suggests it, I tried dating some honestly very wonderful guys but I just can’t fall for anyone when I still only think about one person. Plus I don’t think I should even be in a relationship until I graduate anyway.

I just want to get rid of these feelings for him so that I can start feeling good about myself again and get my confidence back. I can manage day to day, I’m okay with knowing he’s probably out there dating, but it’s just this stupid annoying feeling of sadness when I think of him and it’s time for me to throw this out! Does this last forever? I know my feelings are not rational and I don’t even want to be with him so I realllllly need to shake this off!