Tattoo advice

So I had a miscarriage not too long ago and I want to get a tattoo for my baby. This is the tattoo that I want to get however I also really want to add the blue and pink wings. But I have people telling me that I shouldn’t just because only the people I was closest too knew I was pregnant and if I get this tattoo people will ask what it means and I’ll have to explain and if I get the pink and blue they are going to already know what it means or will ask why I chose those colors . Any suggestions?