Boyfriend keeps posting private pictures on Reddit

Hello!

Me and my bf have a great relationship, but he’s always been quite secretive about his phone. 3 years down the line and I’ve never even been on his phone, I don’t even know his passcode. This isn’t an issue for me, I am respectful of his privacy and I trust him!

However, a month or so ago he started using Reddit. He doesn’t have any other social media, so I was curious what he was posting on there. I found his reddit and found he had posted my nudes, along with nudes from his exes, asking for “rates” on all of us. He even posted one picture of me next to his ex (our nudes) and asked which one was hotter.

I was so mad! He had deleted them before I even got around to talking to him about it. And he deleted the pictures of his exes (which he should have done LONG ago). He said he was just curious what people would say and that it was apparently okay because the majority of people voted I was hottest.

It took a while but we got over it. He then mentioned how he was on Reddit again, but he had created a new account. He wouldn’t tell me the username but eventually I found it, and he had been posted pictures again. Not of me or anyone else this time but of himself nude asking for “rates” on his penis.

This man is 31 years old. What kind of validation could he possibly be needing from random people on Reddit? I haven’t mentioned the pictures I’ve seen him posting, I don’t know how to approach it. I am half tempted to keep quiet about it so I can watch what he’s posting on there, but I am also really mad at him and he can tell somethings up. Any advice is much appreciated!