Anyone else struggle with wanting to do one or not. My family isn’t going to be around so it’ll just be us and our friends. I was going to do a big party with a theme and everything but now I’m just not feeling it since we won’t have anyone down here. My friend was excited to plan it but now I just think it’s a waste of money to do it if there isn’t anyone there to celebrate with us. We won’t find out the gender until September 15th so idk what to do.