Confused..

When you’re a young girl dealing with a older guy is it normal to still want & love them even tho everyone tells you the relationship isn’t right or the guy isn’t right..? I was 16 he was 26 & that’s all I would hear & my male friend actually would get mad at the fact that he was messing with me he’d always say “what is it that you can actually give him” “he’s a grown man he shouldn’t even be interested in you knowing you’re that young”

I must add I feel like it’s all my fault cuz before this started he said “ik it’s crazy cuz our age difference if you want out just say it” & I said I didn’t..