Hi ladies!

I’m in my early 20s and I am in the relationship, we have been together for about 3 years. For the last year and a half I have lost my sex drive - I don’t get turned on, nothing excites me and sometimes I force myself to have sex with my boyfriend just to not disappoint him. It does affect my relationship in a bad way as I can see my partner thinking that I don’t find him attractive when I really do! We all know that lack of sex is not good...

I am on the pill but I’ve been taking my pills for the past 4 years so can’t see them being a problem.

I’m trying to figure out the root of this problem. I have tried different positions, foreplays, fancy hotels, nothing seems to work.

I know a stress can cause it but then my life has always been stressful to I’m pretty used to it.

Do you have any ideas how to improve my sex life? I think it’s time to see a doctor or a nurse and have a chat with them...