currently 20w5d & i’m having severe back pain . the pregnancy pillow isn’t even helping . i can’t lay on my back w/o being in pain & stomach is officially too big to lay on it . but laying on my side still hurts . hubby works 3rd shift , so while he’s here & not sleeping i LOVE the massages but i’m struggling here .

anybody else feeling the same way ? any suggestions . any ointments you use to help w/ pain like peppermint oil or anything ?

due to last pregnancy lost was recommended NOT to get in jacuzzi / hot tub . doctors appointment is wednesday so i’ll ask her but i need help NOW !