Am I loose or is he too small?!?

Ok so my bf is not the biggest in size. Don’t laugh or say anything mean but he is prob 2-2.5 inches soft (about the size of my thumb, maybe slightly longer). When hard maybe 4-4.5ish. He doesn’t have much girth either.

Now I don’t really care about size but when we have sex I feel it at first but the more wetness i get the less I start to feel.

Does this mean I am loose or is it bc he isn’t very big in length or circumference?

I have had two kinds (13 years apart) one n my late teens and another at 30 (11 months ago).

Anyone deal w someone w a small penis? Any sex position suggestions?