I read somewhere that the month of August is when most couples decided to split, and I’m starting to think there’s a reason for it.

We’ve been together for 3.5 years, this is our first year living together (less than a year) and we have two dogs. But constantly nit picking and realizing living together truly does bring things to the surface that you wouldn’t have expected.

Our last argument was us having irreconible differences. I was having a bad weekend because I just felt burnt out from work and managing my side business and just wanted peace and to not talk. I did have a grumpy attitude but I slept in for 14 hours and woke up with a migraine the day we had an argument and explained that to him. He was understanding and let me have space.

But we got into another argument last night that he had to sleep in the guest room (he wanted to) and the argument started with him correcting me about there is no such thing as common sense. Imthe one who stated something about someone I know not having common sense, and he corrected me and said there’s no such thing common sense is just common knowledge, you know something before someone which I guess is true. But i was just venting because it’s been a long four days. And it annoyed me so much that he had to correct me when he knew what I was trying to say.

So how do you deal with arguing with your SO? It’s not like we do it often, but for the past week it has been bad. Also, when we do argue, it gets bad like we will yell. But at the end, he’ll sit me down and we’ll talk. I feel like this time, it’s different.