Pacifiers and toddlers

mandy

So how bad is it for a 21 month old to still use a pacifier? I only give it to her during nap and bedtime in the crib and it usually falls out of her mouth when she falls asleep. I’ve tried not giving it to her and she says “bink” and will fuss and not lay down until I get it. I’ve weaned her off to just in the crib and would like to get rid of it completely. Am I being to hard on myself here? What age should it really go?