My bf of seven months smokes weed everyday after work. Sometimes when he’s with me a little bit (not all the time). He quit a few years ago bc of his mental health but started up again bc of the pandemic and how he can’t go to the gym anymore.

When he’s high, he shows me 0 attention or romance. I feel like he’s not present at all. I feel so alone. He doesn’t double text me or check up on me. I have anxiety and I know he does too but he uses weed to control it. I’m always the one concerned and worried about our relationship...... it’s just driving me insane. I feel like since he’s always high, he doesn’t really have any time to really miss me or value me. We both have said I love you to one another and he’s such a sweet guy when he’s not high.... it breaks my heart to even think about walking away but I don’t know what to do! Please help me. I really don’t. I don’t want to make him chose between me or drug. I don’t want him to resent me or I don’t want to be controlling. I want him to be stress free but I’m realizing that it’s causing me stress! I deserve to be with a man that tries every single day and will be present with me and not make me worried. I will be there for him no matter what but I just can’t help but feel he wouldn’t do the same for me if i needed him and he was high. I feel like he doesn’t depend on me at all for anything but weed he does. Idk what I should do. Should I pull back and let him miss me? I’m just so confused.