Update-

*We have a young baby together, and I’ll be honest he’s not been as good as I thought he was going to be. He doesn’t like changing nappies, feeding him, putting him to bed, I do 90%... even when he was furloughed from work I still did 90%. He works though so I understand why he doesn’t do as much with him, but then again I am constantly with my son and it’s hard. It’s been harder because of lockdown and I’ve been stuck inside with him all of my maternity leave and had no help from anyone else. I go back to work soon and I’m worried it’s still going to be put all on me. I guess what I’m trying to say is I haven’t been bothered about porn since I’ve had my son because I genuinely don’t have time, or the energy, so how does he? I have asked on the weekends if he will watch our son whilst I have a bath and he’s moaned at me so I just never bother to try and take time for myself. Just feel absolutely drained with everything honestly. We have sex often, and I give him blow jobs whenever he wants so it’s not like I’m not giving him anything. *

So yesterday I noticed my husbands old phone, on charge, in his drawer, I thought it was weird so I had a look in, the only thing I found was that he’d been on chaterbate... ive been on porn myself and I’ve never minded porn in our relationship but this to me is going too far... he denied it and said it was a pop up... but it wouldn’t say ‘the person you’re trying to view is offline’ would it? If it was just a pop up....

Any advise? He’s definitely lying isn’t he? Am I overreacting? Does anybody know more about the site?