Okay so I am 32 my husband is 30 we have 5 kids together and I have two from when I was younger so seven all together I am pregnant with number 8!!! I wanted one more so badly so I am excited! But nervous at the same time. I have always been the black sheep of my family, when I was younger or even now it’s like my family judges me even though I wasn’t raised around them, me and my moms relationship has been rocky since I was 12 she even blamed her divorce on me from the guy that raised me since I was 1 and is no out of my life crazy right? Anyways she got married and didn’t even invite me to the wedding! Anyways I’m just rambling now but I am so nervous to tell my family I am pregnant again bc I hate the judging and the hate! When should I tell them? How should I tell them? Oh yea my aunt is the only family member that I’m close to and we live next to eachother she basically raised me and my two oldest but me and my man have been together for 9 years never needed there help with our kids never ask for anything, so why would they be mad right? I just need ADVICE and I mean I’m happy and I want to be able to tell everybody but then I’m thinking maybe I shouldn’t for a couple of months but my anxiety is at a all time high now! I know right kids is a lot but it’s my family and I love kids!