Husand not helping much.

Ok last night I went off on my husband. He has been doing very little to help me with our 4 week old baby. He works from 6am-2pm I understand he comes home tired but Im tired too I work 24/7 with our kids. Baby cries he gives him to me because he cant or doesn’t know how to calm him down.

He’s fussy and i have to take over. He doesn’t change a pamper

I told him he was a useless father and husband maybe i was wrong for saying that? Idk i was so mad i have been keeping it to myself and yesterday i just exploded. He asked me if i couldn’t handle it? I asked him to ask himself that question because he obviously cant handle taking care of his kids!! He does not understand