Hi ladies I have a few problems that I’ve been wondering about. The reason why I’m finally posting about this is because it was the second night in a row that a condom broke, and they were different people. I’ve had condoms break before a few times, and I’m assuming with reasonable evidence that it’s just because of how dry I am. I can’t ever get wet before penetration, I always have to give him a bj or he’ll have to go down on me for the sole purpose of making it a tiny bit comfortable going in. I haven’t tried lube, but my ex was never crazy about the idea. It’s not that I don’t get turned on or there’s not enough foreplay, I just don’t get wet. Now that brings me onto my next issue, sex is painful (most of the time). All my noises that the guys think I’m making out of pleasure are just me trying to suppress literal screams from how bad it hurts. I mean sometimes it feels really good at the same time, but it’s always uncomfortable. But here’s a little plot twist-a few weeks ago when we (another guy not my ex) had sex I felt absolutely nothing. No good or bad or anything. It didn’t feel like anything was inside me, but I remember he was really going at it. Then two nights ago the same thing happened with my ex. I was on top and I couldn’t fe anything. Normally it’s crazy painful to sit up, but anything I did I didn’t feel. At one point I sat there on top of him and literally told him I couldn’t feel anything. He got crazy offended but I don’t think it was his fault. But it’s weird last night I had sex with someone new and it was probably the most painful time, and it hurt so bad to walk after. It always burns a little bit afterwards, but this time was excessive. So to review, dryness, painful sex, feeling nothing, and then burning of the pelvic area and the vagina after sex. Is there something wrong with me? These issues are starting to really become issues, especially the condom breaks.