Hey lady! It is most definitely not for the faint of heart 😢🥴 My hubs had is v for 9 years had the reversal we went for almost a year. I was scheduled to go in on the 3rd day of my next cycle and it never came. Got our bfp 3 days shy of the 1 year mark. I know others it took longer. I’m not sure where you are in your journey and if it has been on the even longer side, all I can say is I wish there were more words. I had the “give up” moment several times. Too emotional to think about it anymore and then days of we will get it right! Only you know what you can handle mentally and emotionally. If you need a break, take it! Give yourself some grace, no charting, no calculating, not looking at time frames. Don’t even open the app! Just enjoy some time with your honey. Y’all plan some date nights, with no pressure of extra curriculars afterward lolol just time spent together. Be spontaneous in your intimate times together instead of feeling like you have to be methodical. If things happen, great if not, you guys are strengthening each other and your relationship. Wishing you the best