Anxiety

Is anyone else extremely anxious regarding developmental delays such as autism? I know it’s something that isn’t even diagnosed for a long ways away but I can’t help thinking about it every day. My son does make eyes eye contact is fine and loves staring at his brother but he’s extremely curious about his surroundings. He has his social smile but due to reflux and his leap he’s pretty uncomfortable so doesn’t do it as much as my first. I keep telling myself to relax but I’m constantly falling down a rabbit hole of looking up what’s normal for this age. I’ve always felt better talking about my anxiety but I’m talking about it so much I’m starting to make my husband anxious.