So my husbands side has cousins that are near my sons age (he’s 3). They pass down clothes to each other their children have outgrown and so have I a few times to them. Well there have been a few times i’d post some clothes on a “pay it forward” group, they’d obviously see it. They have plenty and money too... so I figured i’d give some of the clothes my son has outgrown and give them to someone who is in TRUE need. Well my husbands grandmother hinted around at me a few days ago that “family passes down clothes” and gave me a snarky look. Am I wrong for not always giving them the clothes? Like damn..