Is it bad to sleep around ?

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I’m 22 and just at the stage of life I don’t wanna be in a relationship but kinda wanna just have a casual relationship with guys is this a bad thing. I am 22 I am smart I use condoms and also on birth control. Some of my friends have negative opinions on this but I’m just not ready for another relationship I just want fun is that bad ?

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Do what you want to do. It’s not something I’d ever be proud to say I did, so I wouldn’t do it. I love that my husband is the only man I’ve been with and I’m his only partner too. We share something special.

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As long as you’re being safe, who cares? Sex is fun. Don’t discuss it with your friends day if they are going to give you shit for it.

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As long as you’re using birth control and condoms and checking in on your own mental health, there’s literally nothing wrong with it at all. Please don’t listen to the people shaming you.

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Date...... no. Sleep around yes its wrong. Your vagina is not a play toy or just source of pleasure. It should be handled with proper responsibility. You could get pregnant or incurable stds...... and a “fun time” is not worth the risk. I would suggest you date and get to know yourself and about men but refrain from sexual activity. Save that for when you are either married or in a serious monogamous commited relationship where u have properly vetted and screeened the man, his character, integrity, mental health, stability, and sense of life responsibility... and even then use birth control. Too many women out her finding stds, pregnant and abandoned, struggling single mothers or sad because abortions.... when it boils down to choices and consequences. 
     Now is the time to learn yourself, hobbies, interest, career, and be open to finding a suitable life partner. No fwb.

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It’s all about balance. It’s not “bad”, but definitely don’t go all out. Be safe and smart about it, as it sounds like you intend to be. While it’s fine to have fun, still try to be mindful of who you are giving your energy to. You can have fun and still have good, causal chemistry with someone.

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As long as you’re safe and it’s what you want

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As long as you’re being safe. I went through a phase like that around your age and while I did learn a lot about myself and my sexuality I also ended up getting chlamydia, which may have contributed to the ectopic pregnancy I had earlier this year. Just know there can be long term consequences to slip ups.

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It’s not for me as I’ve always put sex on a pedestal. Though, I hate that I do that so as long as it’s what you want, and you’re being safe (which sounds like it is and you are) then of course it’s okay. It’s your body and you’re owning your sexuality and taking the correct precautions. The only thing I’d say is make emotions clear. If you know you’re just sleeping with someone but you start to feel something for them, make sure it’s reciprocated and Visa versa. We don’t want anyone hurt but I have to say, you go girl you seem happy and that this is what you want so go live your life. And as for those saying it’s not okay, don’t care about their opinion. Feminism is about owning yourself and others supporting those choices. You do you xox

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As long as you’re ok with it and being safe, do what you want! 😊 I personally never did and don’t think I’d be mentally cool with it, but I refuse to slut shame. Women are allowed to just want sex too. Don’t get covid and have fun lol

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I think there’s a point where it becomes bad. 
There’s nothing wrong with not wanting a committed relationship right out of high school/college. If you’re sleeping with a couple different guys at the same time, as long as they aren’t expecting faithfulness from you who cares as long as you’re taking precautions? 
I think it becomes an issue when you’re sleeping with multiple different guys per day, that’s getting into sex addiction. Sex shouldn’t be the majority of your life. 
Also remember that condoms don’t 100% protect you from STD’s. It’s smart to ask your partner about their sexual history. If he’s raw-dogging everything with a vagina, it’s best to stay away.

Is it bad to sleep around ?

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