Can't believe the difference a year makes!

It's crazy the difference a year can make. Last June, my fiancé who I'd been with for 8 years, father of my children admitted to multiple affairs and one night just didn't come home from work and moved in with a side girlfriend. I had been raising his son as my own since the mother is hardly in the picture. We spent 3 years trying to conceive, multiple medications, fertility specialist appts and a miscarriage before finally having our baby. He was terrible with money so we were behind on rent, all utilities, any payment basically. I never bought a single thing for myself, was extremely frugal and it still never seemed to be enough. After he left in June I thought my world was ending. Fast forward to the end of the month and I reconnected with someone I went to college with and he is the nicest, most caring man I have ever met. I was able to get caught up on all my bills, pay off one of my student loans, my braces, save up a down payment and my partner and I bought our first house, I am legally the primary parent for my oldest (not biologically mine) I have the boys 100% although luckily their father still takes them to do things some days so hes still in their life. Him and I have a great coparenting relationship after he finally realizes all I've done for him and the boys over the years, (he's no longer with the side gf because she cheated on him), I have a wonderful step daughter who we have about 70% of the time, and we decided to try for our fourth and final and conceived the first month! It was literally just over a year ago that I couldnt see the light at the end of the tunnel, now I'm happier than I've ever been ♡