Lets wait to have a baby

We're still suffering. Still hurting. Still broken over the loss of our unborn child who we lost at 19 weeks.

However, this experience has brought my boyfriend and i closer and truly has allowed us to grow together.

Initially when we started seeing each other (and after getting pregnant only 6.5 months into our relationship - just an additional note we have known each other for 15+ years and been best friends for 8 of those years) he was very much lik "if we get pregnant then its just meant to be and I'd be happy" type of mentality. I However was the worrier. Thinking a child would not be wise.

Anyways. Since this tragedy, I have said if we get married i would like to try for kids right away. But he's shifted to wanting us to simply be a couple for a few years before we bring kids in to rhe mix. However Im worried that because we arent getting any younger. And personally, I want to be finished having babies by 35.

I dont want to fight with him. Because again we are still hurting and I dont want to make matters worse. Thoughts??