Disapponted in other women

Just need to say: if it is not your body, you have no place to tell someone to change theirs for you. Your preferences are just that, and not absolute for every individual.

I grew up SO insecure about my ass and vagina because they weren’t like other girls I deemed to have “normal” vaginas. I have a dark outer labia, lips, and asshole. I wish more girls out there like me knew that this is completely normal and healthy, and attractive!! Some dumb girl who didn’t know better made fun of me for it(old tea sis, cuz I was NOT the one who told her about my pussy)

I’m venting because I remembered something from middle school. I was so insecure about my body, I believed I had the ugliest vagina and no boy would be happy seeing me. I was looking for some validation, someone to tell me I’m healthy and beautiful. I saw so many disgusting and ignorant posts, but one stuck with me.

This woman made a step-by-step article on how to have a perfect body for your man, something along the lines of that.

She encouraged douching because apparently you “need to clean it out” (but actually douching has proved unhealthy, upsetting the natural pH of your vagina), frequent bleaching of your cookie and back hole because “no man wants to see a dark and used hole” I felt so disappointed. I mean men have always been peculiar about our bodies I’m not surprised to see a couple posts by them but a female? I feel terrible for whoever read that article and felt ahsamed of themself.

If she were trying to be sarcastic, it could’ve been done a lot better. Nothing sounded sarcastic to me.

You’re body is beautiful in its own way. There are SO many different shapes, sizes and colors of vaginas and assholes. This needs to be more common information, especially among women. We should be encouraging each other, not putting each other down. I was surprised to learn even young adult women didn’t even know labia could be any color other than pink or nude??

Thank you for letting me vent ugh...