So I am currently 8 months pregnant, and my husband and I have been married for a year now but we've dated on and off and been knowing each other nearly half of our lives. He's 33 and I'm 31 and we met when I was 15. The problem is I'm questioning if he's the right one for me?

He's a good man, but being a good man don't mean you're a good man for me! He provides and get whatever me and the kids need, but he contributes a lot to my anger and unhappiness sometimes. Sometimes I feel like he don't know how to talk to me, and I've expressed this to him numerous of times. He's quick tempered, hostile and aggressive in tone and demeanor but nothing physical or crazy though. It just seems like he doesn't have the patience for a family or something.

I'm so sick of every week we go thru the same thing and argue over the pettiest shit. It's like every time I tell him how's he's making me feel or how he comes off he minimize what I say or make it seem as if that's not true. How the fuck are you going to tell me how I feel?! I'm just so sick of it and I'm tired of feeling like I'm being gaslighted or crazy or something when a lot of times he bring mysadness by how he speaks to me. It has gotten so mentally exhausting that I've even thought about finding me a male friend for emotional support and that's not even my character! I know it's wrong and I don't want to do anything like that but I just can't connect with my husband emotionally or mentally 😢