Help.

I’m a teenager (15, turning 16 in September) and I need some guidance (not from google but from actual people with experience) I want to get on birth control bc my cramps are horrible and have really bad hormonal problems, but my mother doesn’t want me to get on it and wants me to do natural herbs rather then birth control. I’ve talked to my doctor about it and she never listens to I what I have to say but what my mother does as if she knows what I go through. So I really need some sort of advice bc my cramps are to the point where pain medication doesn’t do anything for me and my acne is getting really bad. So I just some advice on how to assist this situation.