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I clean the house, sweep, clean counters wash dishes,clean couches, chairs I clean up after they cook all the stove, I wipe down the refrigerator clean and organize.
Today I did all of that and my mom comes in doesn't say hi to me is all angry and I walk past her just glares at me and then she starts cleaning the pantry she doesn't clean trying to say she did something more important so she doesn't want to say nothing for my hard work.
This is a big house I vacuum, mop.
Sometimes I cook family meals and bake. I am quiet, don't use drugs, don't have sex.
If she does something like cook I say thank you, if she cleans I say wow the house looks clean beautiful and I am nice talk to her but she is grumpy like a dog.
I told her its nice to hear thank you and she said I'm the one working paying bills
but I do everything the laundry cleaning I just want her to say a compliment. I don't get allowance.
There have been times I feel depressed and I only clean up after myself by the end of the week the house is upside a mess and she starts screaming slamming things saying no one helps her and says to get up and clean when its her stuff that's dirty.
What do I say to her literally she slams groceries down on the counter and I have to put it away reorganize freezer refrigerator an wipe down wash it she doesn't ask just expects it.
I feel like crying
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