Sorry this is off topic, but I am feeling overwhelmed and sad and don't feel I can post this anywhere else.

My wonderful dad died early 2019 and my mother has not been the same since. Lately, due to the quarantine, she has become quite miserable and seems to be upset at me for 'not caring enough' (she is definitely depressed). She comes over every night for dinner which I feel like is quite nice of me, but she still seems to think no one cares about her.

I am emotionally exhausted. I am a people pleaser and wish I could make everyone happy, however I have my own concerns of raising my toddler and having a new baby. I just want some happiness and quiet time. :( Those with tricky family situations, how do you focus on the happy things exclusively?