UPDATE3 how to tell my friend i dont care shes pregnant

so yesterday my friend announced to me shes pregnant. yay congratulations im happy!

well since then she hasnt stopped messaging me about it how happy she is and how amazing this is going to be for her and her husband. they were trying for 4months.

i however have been struggling with infertility and she knows this. we have been friends for around a year and knows how hard it is for my husband and i. its been 5 years and still no baby for us. we are taking the

IVF

route..

i know shes happy and excited but i feel like shes being a little inconsiderate bombarding me with baby and pregnancy messages when she knows my struggles? i have sent her a mini text to say im busy today with my husband and shes been calling me to talk about baby names/ baby shopping.

how do i tell her i dont really care...or get her to stop and chill out? im actually considering blocking her because im angry and hurt. My husband said to just tell her shes being rude and to stop now but i dont want to seem like a crazy lady

Help?? No rude comments plz

*update* thanks ladies. yes i obviously do care a lot and i wouldnt wish anything bad on her or the baby. i just really dont want to hear about it constantly right now.

she did this last month and was sending me tests with “faints line” (i didnt see anything) etc but her period started and since then its been constant updates such as every time she has sex or every time her opk got darker. i should have explained that better but im really just fed up with the constant messages from her when i have my own struggles and issues to sort out. i hope that gives a little better insight on the situation

*update 2* i sent her a long message last night explaining how i feel with the help of many of

You ladies. she apologised and explained she got carried away but is willing to take a step back with the constant updates. She asked if she could send scan photos/ ask question or for advice and I said of course, i just didn’t want the phone calls everyday etc..

Shes very understanding and i do care which i mentioned in update 1 i just got myself in a little emotional hole and couldn’t express how i felt properly. Im sorry i came across rude. I haven’t told her about the post even though i want to so she can see your comments which many explains exactly how i feel??! But im worried my original comment will hurt her and i truly dont want that to happen.

Thank you x

*update 3* for all the new comments saying i need to talk with her and im a bad selfish friend, I HAVE SPOKEN TO HER! Its all sorted she understands she was a bit much and i apologised and explained my feelings. I did show her the post snd shes read the comments and we both are on the same page in terms of our friendship and whats going to work for us both. She isnt mad, im not mad. My initial reaction was wrong and i know that but to keep calling me a bad friend is starting to hurt...i wasn’t trying to be hurtful and she knows this.

Thank you x