Should I apologize or just let this friendship end?

Question

Hello guys so I need some advice because I’m feeling a little ummm confused and honestly I don’t know how to react to this situation. 
My ex roommate was talking to this guy for a while just hooking up and stuff and she caught feelings I guess/ but he wasn’t reciprocating. was acting really distant so I warned her a few times to stop talking to him. To just not pay him any mind. She ghosted him and then he came back and she started asking him some hard questions like “why did you treat me like an after thought?” Etc etc. I was like I think he has another girl, he’s seeing someone: but she wouldn’t listen to me. 
Finally she decided to keep asking him questions 🤷🏽‍♀️🙄 and she found out he had a girlfriend . And below are the screenshots.

Now she’s mad at me for saying “I knew it”..... should I be feeling bad or??? Like I don’t get why she’s mad at me. I told her time and time again to drop this guy. 
I don’t know what to say so I haven’t responded but I’ve been through stuff like this with my ex and some guys. But it’s like she doesn’t wanna listen.. and I have no empathy for her. She’s not even that close to me. She never was a close roommate.

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Yes, apologize. You're rubbing salt in the wound with your "I told you so" attitude. This isn't worth ending an entire friendship over.
Not exactly a fan of her racial comment though... She clearly doesn't know him as well as she thought to make such claims. 😕

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Saying “I told you so” is not what a friend does even if your did tell them. You be there and support and encourage them because clearly now they know you were right so you don’t need to rub it in their face. She already feels bad, you don’t need to make her feel worse. Keep this in mind for other relationships in your life too.

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Yea, your “I knew it” shit kinda pissed me off and I’m not even the one you were talking to. Stop being a know it all bitch and apologize. And talk to her like she’s a human being.

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If u value her and the friendship, apologize. Either she wasnt tht great of a friend..... or youre just rude tbh. Kind people dont rub salt on people’s wounds .... unless they could care less which seems likecu dont since u asking if apologizing is the right thing to do🤔

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Nobody likes to hear "I told you so", especially when they are upset about something that happened. It's really not that big a deal... just apologize and move on.

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That’s the last thing she wants to hear. I say apologize and just understand her feelings. She already feels dumb and then you saying that makes her feel even more dumb although you don’t mean it in that way. but she’s already having a lot of emotions and you’re just adding to it. i’ve done that before to my bestfriend and i apologized after i realized that i was adding to the sadness/ stupid feeling yfm?

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In this case you should have took a comforting approach. It’s not helping to mention that you were right about the situation. 
I was kinda in the same boat with my sister. She finally got out of a really shitty relationship. I was saying how it was good she was out of the relationship considering the really awful and repeated things he did behind her back. She just wasn’t ready to hear it. Although I still think she needed to hear it, it still hurt her.

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You should apologize. Reading the convo it seems pbvious to me you didn't mean any harm, I would say nearly the same things. Howeverrrrr I'm also an empath. I'm pretty sure the biggest issue is she feels stupid already from getting played, especially that she had a friend warning her and she still let herself get played. The "I knew it" probably just makes her feel more stupid which is an additional hit to her self esteem.
You should just apologize and tell her you really didn't mean it that way. Especially if the texts were the extent of the argument, because she doesn't really sound mad to me, to me it just sounds like your words were hurting her the whole time and she was finally essentially like "ok bro I get that I was getting played the whole time, can you stop rubbing it in please"

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I wouldn’t be friends with her, but because of the fact that she just assumes people are racist for no reason.

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I think you should apologize simply because she said all of the ‘I told you so’ comments were hurtful to her, so any well adjusted adult wouldn’t want to be hurtful and would apologize for it.
She wanted the relationship to go a certain way, and it didn’t, so she is disappointed ... it sounds like you have been there yourself and know how it feels (because you also say you know the signs).. you are obviously not responsible for her being hurt by this guy, but you also don’t need to keep reminding her how right to were. I am sure you had to learn from your own experiences too and maybe wouldn’t have always listened to someone else at the time.
You say at the end that you have no empathy for her and you aren’t even that close, so it’s not like you are obligated to keep her as a friend, but apologizing when you may have played a roll in ‘kicking someone when they are already down’ is just the mature thing to do. As she said, she feels stupid enough already

Should I apologize or just let this friendship end?

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