Is relationship before sex uncommon?


Seems I keep running into guys who act like they can’t wait for the commitment before sex. They say they’ll wait, but they seem in denial about it and try to get it anyway. I’m 25 and it just seems i’m from a different planet or something to request the relationship before sex. Early on in my dating days, I would give it beforehand and it seemed that guys became disinterested after they got it, so now I request the relationship just to feel more comfortable about it. Makes me feel i’ll find a person genuinely wanting to wait, never get married and have a family like I want 😒😒. I’ve tried guys from all walks and they always try to get in my panties!!! Lol