My partner and I have been arguing a lot. Rhe other day I had an anxiety attack and I expressed my feelings to him that when he acts a certain way or says certajn things that it triggers my anxiety more and in that moment I don't feel supported. I feel like I'm being looked down upon for having anxiety. He got mad and said that he did exactly what he wants me to do but his way. And he isnt going to change because I asked him to. So we got home and I did what made me feel better and he ignored the issue and didn't talk to me and then talked to me laterike nothing ever happened and even tried to hug me. I tried to be positive because I didn't want my anxiety to come up again. Tonight, we were fine. We were watching a movie and I asked if we could watch the movie in bed (now I was a little buzzed) so I was playful and said please in that way like maybe 2 times and he got irritated and said no. He said that he layed down earlier because of me (which I never even asked him to, he just did ) and that he took a nap when he didn't want to and now he's going to be up all night (like I forced him to take a nap?) He then said I was being selfish for wsnting him to kay with me to watch the movie.So where I went wrong is that I asked for respect and he always tells me that he treats me with respect. I let him know that I see how he treats everyone else with respect but me. Especially his family and he got mad and told me to keep their names out of my mouth. I just was buzzed and sad and I said that I'm sad and I'm not selfish and I think that there's a better way he should go about things because my feelings got hurt. He kept telling me that he didn't say anything wrong and that hes being honest with me. He said that he isnt going to change how or what he says for me. Then he told me that be doesnt care what I have to say. But he comes in the room and apologizes and theres been a habit of that. Where he hurts my feelings and then comes and apologizes or is nice to me and doesn't act like anything happens. Im stressed and confused