last year my boyfriend ruined my birthday- he said I “disappeared for an hour” when I was talking to friends (we had 30+ people at my birthday) and then I was in the bathroom- he literally left me at the restaurant while I was in the bathroom(never tried to call my phone or text or have someone look for me) and wouldn’t come back to get me so I took an Uber home- and THEN he got mad because I went and met up our friends at the bar where everyone was waiting for us and he had to stay home with his son (babysitter bailed). He claims they were all his friends and there to see him anyway even though it was MY birthday- so when he asks me what I want to do this year I’m like idk- Maybe some peace and no f-ing drama- UGH - just had to vent because he came home in a shit mood from work and cussed out this bill collector on the phone and I didn’t agree with him so he’s all like “you never have my back” and called me stupid 🤬 you think I’d be old enough to not put up with this -