Bi curious question

Alright so I got out of a serious relationship and have no interest of dating i have always thought of the idea of trying things with other women but am super embarrassed and just dont want to go on any lesbian sites in case someone recognizes my face. I just kinda want to try a fling but don't know how. Hell even flirting and sexy talk is kinda my idea of a good time but not sure where to find anyone who is willing to. Anyone going through this or am i the only one? Lol