Help! Losing my mind

Nicole

I have never been late on a period. In fact normally I spot two days prior to it starting. We BD the day before ovulation and I have been feeling little pulls of cramps the whole two week wait. Now I am 3 days late on my period but have had very random spotting that is a brownish color and only see it when I wipe. At random points in the day. Not all day. I still have light cramping. So I took a test today and it was a BFN. I don't understand what is going on with my body. Why does crazy stuff like this have to happen to get your hopes up when you are trying to get preggo? 😭