I just wanna give some advice to everyone who is TTC. I know many people have a very hard time TTC and sometimes it take months or years! My mom was told by doctors that she would have a very very hard time TTC. That it would be nearly impossible. She got married and after 6 months she started having stomach pains. They were really bad but she brushed it off cuz this was something she has always been getting ever since she was a little girl... my mom always had problems with her stomach. Her husband ran to the next door neighbor who was a family friend and a family doctor,, he told him if he could come by and check on his wife she has really bad stomach pain. So he came by and checked her blood pressure and everything and advised her to go to the doctors because you might be pregnant. My mom said immediately.. no no I can’t be pregnant. I was told it would be nearly impossible for me to get pregnant. But he told her to just go to make sure it wasn’t anything serious. So she went and they took her blood and urine and SURPRISE .. she was pregnant. My mom was in disbelief and so incredibly happy. After NOT EVEN A YEAR... she got pregnant with me. I was not planned at all! Both me and my brother were not planned and so unexpected! After having both of us .. my mom really wanted one more kid.. she always wanted 3 kids. And because me and my brother were so close in age.. she wanted her next kid to be close in age as well so we could be all very close❤️ but that took her 3 Years! It took her 3years to get pregnant with my sister. What my mom really taught me is,,, when you don’t think about having a baby or TTC,, then it’ll be easier for you to get pregnant than constantly obsessing over TTC and that’s all you think about! But if you go about your life and not have that consume you and constantly thinking about it,, then your more likely to conceive. Because once she actually started thinking about having a 3rd child,, it was hard for her and she was constantly thinking about it. My mom knows I’m TTC,,, I wanted to let her know because she’s like my best friend and I wanted advice from her. She told me all this, and made sure to tell me to not obsess over getting pregnant.... which I have been! I wanted to let all of you beautiful people who are TTC know to just have fun in your life, and not to have this eat you up inside. I know this is different for couples who have been trying for years and years,, but for the ones who just started.. everything will be alright. Just pray and live your life to the fullest💕 Baby Dust on all you beautiful Mamas💗💗