I’m 19 years old with a 3 year old.

I live on my own but my sister lives with me because she has no place to go and has 2 kids and one on the way(smh) with a whole man beside her.

We split the bills, they pay their part.. I don’t know how they do but they do... I don’t ask any questions.

A few weeks ago, I find out my emergency money savings($3,300) was stolen!! The money was stolen but any other valuable I had there was still there. I told people all around me about that situation and they told me that they feel like it’s an inside job. There wasn’t any signs of break in. They supposedly heard somebody downstairs(they live upstairs in the attic) but didn’t call the police???

I’ve been side eyeing my sister just because of the simple fact she brings people over and doesn’t even let me know! I work 3rd shift so I’m gone for more than 12 hrs at a time, (7p-7:30AM).

And I thought I could trust her cause she was the only one who knew where I laid my money at(big mistake). Ever since then, I’m just aggravated living here... I’m deciding to move somewhere else just for my child & I to not deal with her anymore and the neighborhood as well. She’s upset because she doesn’t know where her family is going to stay. She has a whole man living with her and doesn’t work and she doesn’t work. I feel as if she or her man should’ve been working to save up to find somewhere to live on her own with their own family(theyre about to be a family of 5) I think it’s ridiculous how they can live off of people and not work... but can lay on their back and continue to have babies they can’t afford and can’t even afford to live in a place to put a roof over their heads for the two little ones they got now.

I don’t feel bad anymore because they’ve been in this situation since March. More than enough time to save especially when you’re living off of people and paying half of bills.

On top of that, they ended up getting a dog without asking of course... and I’m allergic. This dog shits all over the yard and they don’t even care to pick it up... it’s disgusting. Their 1 year old shits, they put everything in a bag tie it up and just throw it outside from the attic window instead of going outside and just discarding it into the trash... how fucking lazy is that? It looks ghetto as well!

I’m 19 about to turn 20... i decided to not have anymore kids until I graduate college and have a great paying job just because I know what it’s like to struggle as a teen mother and I wouldn’t want to put any other child through that. She’s about to be 26, doesn’t work(don’t remember the last time she has had a job) and just keep making babies.

I’m sorry I’m just frustrated... I hope she can figure it out for herself and her own family. It’s not my responsibility to care for them. They’re grown. They can work hard for their shit like I did.