So , I need help. I ended the relationship with my kids father of 6 yrs. The main reason is because we set expectations and he doesn’t follow thru. That applies to giving money, paying bills, getting a stable job, helping around the house, doing things with the kids, our relationship.:: just all around. Well I told him if he works on himself and we feel that we want to try things again , we should... but give it some time to figure out what’s next because he has not accomplished much after 6 yrs & 3 kids later.

So he starts to hang out with his “friend “ that I don’t like because she is a hoe and uses guys for money and puts him in bad situations. Well now he been staying over there instead of staying at his grandma right next door. We have took a break once before , 2 yrs ago and he lived with her for like a week until I took him back. Since then the only thing changed is I had another baby. So he been drinking at this girl house, missing work just acting like a child. He is 26 and we had our first baby at 21.

My goal is to make it work with him but I cant continue the way it’s going. He has no want to change and admits he is wrong but don’t try to fix it or make it better. It seems like he is doing all the things to keep us apart believe it or not.

I seen he started texting someone cause he was in my house and I asked who he is talking to and he didn’t want to tell me. He said isn’t this what you wanted.. so I explained I wanted to make it work but now he is saying he don’t know if he wants it to work or be with me.

I’m sad because I know I had to do this, but I’m hurting and he is not reacting like I expected....

Going to this girl house , txting people, drinking a lot, it’s only been like 2 weeks. About a month since we broke up but 2 weeks he been out the house.

What should I do from here? He will come around and say he misses me etc. try to have sex which I refuse , but then also says he understands why we broke up and he don’t know if we should get back together at all .,...