Unhealthy marriage

I feel that I have an unhealthy marriage with my husband because we can’t communicate well. I try very hard to get him to open up and tell me how he feels and when he eventually does, he’s always super angry about it. He raises his voice, he might start cursing... Just because I want to know what is on his mind. Maybe I’m frustrating to talk to? I don’t know...

I also think it is very disrespectful of him to be on his phone while I’m trying to have a conversation with him. His eyes are constantly glued to that phone, it’s terrible. It literally runs his life.

I love him so much and the idea of divorcing over this makes me sad. I want to make it work with him but he doesn’t seem to think we have a problem or that he has an anger issue. I don’t know what to do with this man...