School Parents being friends

My daughter started kindergarten and became friends with another student in her class . The mother of the other student is older around 50 and I’m 24. We talked about doing the online schooling together but nothing outside of that ...we are completely different and most of the parents at that school are older ....

She keeps insisting the classes be held at her house . I said ok and I can do the sleepover part the kids want and it’s like she doesn’t trust me because I’m young. She asked if I had men and drugs in and out my house which yea you can never be too careful these days but she said it was because “she knew how she was at my age”

Should I not let my child do online classes there cuz she doesn’t trust her kid being at my house ? Or tell my daughter find a new friend ?

I am trying but how am I supposed to connect with her with the age gap !?