When I was struggling to find a job as a single mom I exchanged sec for money 2 times in my life. The customer was someone I knew but not close with. He had a roommate that I became close to. Come to find out the guy I was close to gave his roommate the money....he tried to throw it in my face once during an argument we had when we dated recently. And I said well why would you be with me if it’s such a problem. I used protection and it only happened twice. I never did it again. I was honest about it. It wasn’t my best decision in life but I did what I thought I had to do.