Boyfriends brother doesn’t like me????

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Me and my boyfriend have been together for about 3 years but i only met his older brother (his only sibling) in person last year because he lived out of state..... I’m not gonna lie his brother is annoying to me but i would never treat him different or tell my bf or try to make him choose sides or anything it’s just something I complain to MY friends about... fast forward to yesterday he and his brother hung out doing whatever (I’m not like a keeping tabs type) and today we were just talking about random things and he tells me about a conversation they had where his brother was basically asking him like why are you with her and he was telling him all these good things about me and our relationship basically defending it but I’m like 1. Your brother is talking shit and 2. YOU SHOULDNT HAVE TO DEFEND ANYTHING. 
And this is NOT THE FIRST TIME where we’re just talking randomly and he tells me about a conversation like this. I never really said anything to him because I don’t feel like he’s being malicious but it definitely makes me feel weird that I’m being questioned and it doesn’t make me wanna be around his family especially his brother knowing that he’s talking shit and would rather us not be together..... he says he doesn’t think his brother is talking shit or doesn’t like me but for me just knowing there have been multiple conversations like this makes me want to say something but at the same time I don’t want my bf in the middle of it I just want to know why he has a problem with us being together....... 
Like it just keeps happening over and over again. Should i say something?????? Am I making it a big deal and unnecessary or is it justified to address this?

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Why would you say anything to him? That’s just asking for drama. Your boyfriend took care of it, so saying something to him would only be to start shit.

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Don't say or do anything at all. It's a good thing your boyfriend is handling the situation. Appreciate what you have seems to be a nice guy, he respects you which is great!
Maybe you're right, maybe his brother doesn't like you.. But why be bothered by that? Just ignore the guy and enjoy your relationship 👌🏽

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I guess my question is, is it making you feel insecure? Are you wondering if they are right? Thinking “yea why is he with me? “ if so, then I think it warrants a conversation. Not a nasty accusatory convo but if this is making you feel like shit and insecure, you don’t want to let it fester. Tell him it hurts your feelings and ask him why they feel that way. If they have valid reasons maybe you can work on it. If they don’t, and they just suck, at least you know it’s dumb and you can move on.

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If I were in your shoes, I would not make a big deal about it and I would just do everything in my power to show him exactly why your boyfriend is with you. Be a good person and a good partner to his brother and then he’ll understand eventually. If you make this into a big deal, it’s just going to be one more reason for him to ask why he’s with you￼. Personally I think your boyfriends an idiot for even saying anything to you about it. He should keep his conversations between him and his brother because telling you private conversations like that is literally causing drama￼.￼ I would ask him to not tell you things like that anymore because it hurts you.￼

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Eh just let it be . I been with my hubs for 7 yrs and I dont like his little sister and she doesn’t like me, we “get along” at family events and such we call to check on each other but definitely not the fondest of one another.

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If I were your boyfriend I would be so fucking annoyed if you made it a point to make a big deal about this.

Boyfriends brother doesn’t like me????

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